Music Memory Monday – With Arms Wide Open

by Andi on October 5, 2009

MusicMemoryMondayMusic provokes all kinds of memories.  Some good.  Some bad. For me, the bad serve their purpose in the form of reminders or life lessons.

Recently I have been working on a project that requires me to do data entry for several hours a day, it’s a temporary situation, but needless to say quite boring. To make the time pass more quickly I have been listening to my full collection on iTunes.

Buried within  are some great songs I haven’t really heard in a long time. But hidden in there are a few songs that carry reminders of times I would rather forget (hence the iTunes clean-up I did yesterday).

One of those songs that caught me by surprise this past week was Creed’s With Arms Wide Open from their Human Clay album.

I heard this song after having recently read my friend Julie’s post on doing things that make you comfortable in life and it reminded me of a time when I was not comfortable.  At one point in time I had a boyfriend who was an exercise nut. I was not.  But I tried.  My boyfriend went to the gym every day and I went too.

There was no way I was going to do a group class, I was not into lifting weights. I was totally uncoordinated at all the machines except for the treadmill.   So I spent my time there.  And to make that torturous time pass rapidly,  I listed to my MP3 player – there was no iAnything at that time, just s simple Rio MP3 player.

I was totally into With Arms Wide Open and would basically play that one song on repeat until my boyfriend came to tell me he was ready to go.  Now when I hear that song I think of that time when I was not being true to myself, when I was trying to be something that I wasn’t just so I would not be lonely.

It was a valuable lesson one that I have never forgotten.

How about you? Have a song that reminds you of a bad time in your life?

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Pink Heels October 5, 2009 at 1:21 pm

I always find it amazing when I hear a specific song that evokes a memory or emotional response. The year that Eric Clapton’s song, “Tears in Heaven” came out both of my grandmothers passed away, a friend, the mother’s of two friends, and my dog. As soon as I hear that song, I instantly think about all of the death that surrounded my life during that year. While it is sad, I appreciate the reminders of the wonderful people that I associate the song with.

jen October 8, 2009 at 5:53 am

I just have to say regarding data entry, PR and marketing types NEVER get admin support. Like, never. As if an accountant would *ever* do that – or an engineer.

Alisa Bowman October 8, 2009 at 6:38 am

Most older songs are nostalgic for me in a good way, except for one. There’s a Bruce Springsteen song that reminds me of an ex, and I don’t like to listen to it because of that. Even though it’s a pretty catchy song. There are also plenty of songs that I love–because of the memories–but I’m afraid to admit because I don’t think it’s cool to love them. Like most of the Michael Jackson songs from the Thriller album. LOVE them. And Gloria Gayner’s I Will Survive. Was a better song ever written? Also the theme songs to Flashdance and Fame. Those songs make me feel like I can conquer the world.

But it’s not cool, so I usually listen to them when no one else is around. Silly, huh?

Polprav October 15, 2009 at 4:30 pm

Hello from Russia!
Can I quote a post in your blog with the link to you?

Andi October 15, 2009 at 6:18 pm

Hello there, you got stuck in my spam filter, welcome and sure, you may link to me!

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